Getting an ex-girlfriend back is definitely possible.
Think about it this way…
Have you ever hated someone and then really liked them later on when they changed the way that they communicated or behaved around you? Of course, it happens to everyone. Additionally, has there ever been a time when you didn’t want to be with a particular woman, but you then changed your mind and really wanted to be with her?
Of course, it’s natural and it happens to most guys.
You definitely can get an ex girlfriend back because it is possible to change the way she feels about you. Not only is it possible to change how your ex girlfriend feels about you, but it’s a very common thing that guys from all other world do to get their ex back.
When you begin saying and doing things that make her feel respect and attraction for you, she will naturally begin to feel differently about you. When an ex-girlfriend feels enough renewed respect and attraction for the guy she once dumped, she will almost always open herself back up to being with him.
It’s just simple psychology and when you know how to do it, you will kick yourself for not learning this stuff earlier.
How Did I Learn How to Be So Successful at Picking Up Women and Keeping a Relationship Together?
Many years ago, the love of my life dumped me and back when I got dumped, there weren’t any experts online helping guys to get an ex back.
I was on my own and I lost her.
I had ruined the relationship by becoming clingy, needy and generally not being enough of a man for her. After putting up with that for a long time, she eventually got sick of it and wanted to see less and less of me.
One morning, she called me to tell me that she’d kissed a guy at a nightclub the night before and had now realized that she didn’t want to be with me anymore. The whole experience killed my confidence and self-esteem and made me avoid meeting new women for a long time.
I went through many years of loneliness and lost a lot of confidence in myself because I had no-one to help me. Here’s what happened and how I eventually worked out my system for getting an ex back…
A Break Up is Not Permanent if You Can Make Her Feel Differently About You
When I got dumped, I didn’t even know that it was possible to get an ex back.
I thought that if a relationship was over and the woman said, “I don’t want to be with you anymore,” then it was a permanent split and there was no way to get her back.
Back when it happened to me, I only had one friend at the time and he told me that all women are sl*ts who can be trusted. Not very helpful advice! He said that my ex was a disloyal bitch and that I should move on, but years later I remembered something she said and it made total sense.
When we were breaking up, she said that she would be open to giving things another chance if I changed, but she didn’t see me changing anytime soon. I had no idea what to change because back then, I didn’t even know how to attract women. I had gotten lucky when I met her and started a relationship with her because both of us were drunk at a party and started kissing.
It was pure luck.
I didn’t know what I now know about attraction, so when she was asking me to change, I had no idea what she wanted. If I only I knew what I now teach here at The Modern Man…
When I eventually became the dating and relationship guru that I am today, I was surprised to find out how easy it is to actually get an ex back. I’ve literally helped more than 100 clients to get back an ex girlfriend, fiance or wife who HATED them prior to using my approach.
I’ve also had more than 100 clients who had an ex that was already with a new guy, but they were able to pull at her heartstrings and make her feel more love, respect and attraction than she had ever felt for them before. In many of those cases (not all), the woman eventually left the new guy to get back with my client.
I just wish that this sort of help was available when I got dumped because not all break ups are meant to be permanent. My girlfriend and I shared something amazing, but I didn’t know what I needed to fix about myself to make her happy.
That’s life though; at least now I am in a position to help other guys to get their ex back.
Why Did You and Your Girlfriend Decide to Break Up?
Most breakups don’t happen out of the blue.
There are usually many warning signs that a guy will either ignore or be too inexperienced with relationship to notice.
Many of the guys I’ve helped to get an ex back have said that they were shocked when she wanted to break up, because she’d often talked about marriage, starting a family and how much she loved him.
Yet, just because a woman says that she wants to be with you for life one day, it doesn’t mean she will continue holding onto that thought if you no longer make her feel the same way.
Love is something that needs to be taken care of. If you want to be successful in a relationship with a woman and keep it together for life, you have to deepen the woman’s feelings of love, respect and attraction for you.
In the past, a woman would stay with a man for life even if she was unhappy because it was shameful to get divorced. In today’s world, women break up with guys all the time and don’t even worry about it. In fact, society and even a woman’s family and friends will encourage her to break up with a guy who isn’t right for her.
It’s just not like it used to be. These days, you actually have to know how to attract a woman and then maintain her attraction for you. Otherwise, she can and often will leave if she gets bored of not feeling the way she really wants to feel.
Some Do’s and Don’ts Now That You’ve Broken Up
There are many classic mistakes that guys make when a woman breaks up with them and they’re trying to get her back, but here are some common ones to avoid:
Don’t plead, beg, whine or otherwise put yourself into a position where you are saying that you will do anything to please her. Women are mostly attracted to men who are mentally and emotionally strong, so showing emotional weakness like that turns a woman off.
Don’t hound her with calls, letters and text messages. The more pressure you put on her, the more she will want to distance herself from you.
You and her were individuals before you met each other, you were individuals while you were in a relationship (despite how close you both felt) and you are both individuals right now.
She is an individual and can do whatever she wants with her individual life, just like you can. If you make her feel as though she doesn’t have the freedom of choice as an individual human being, it will make her want to get further away from you.
Don’t call her friends or family and ask for their help. Her friends and family will usually take her side and if they don’t, she will quickly convince them to. She will then feel resentment towards you for getting her family or friends involved in the break up.
Do demonstrate that you are happy with or without her. Talk confidently, do fun things, catch up with friends, go out to party and enjoy yourself and let her see that happening in your life via your social media account(s). If you want specific instructions on what to post and what not to post, make sure you check out my program, Get Your Ex Back: Super System.
Do display the charm and confidence that originally attracted her to you. Be positive, fun and happy to talk to, rather that serious or depressing. If you are now lacking confidence after the break up or have lost your mojo and have forgotten how to be charming, learn from one of more of my programs and you will back on track in no time.
Do fix any insecurities that you have regarding your ex (e.g. jealousy, feeling like you’re not good enough for her, clinginess, etc) before you meet up with her in person to attempt a reconciliation.
Will You Get Her Back?
After helping hundreds of guys to successful get their ex back, I can say with confidence that you have a VERY HIGH chance of getting your ex girlfriend back. The very least that I can promise you is that she will agree to meet up with you in person.
At the meet up, you can then use my advanced attraction techniques and persuasive conversation techniques to get her to want to give the relationship another chance. The techniques that I provide make her feel differently about you, which is the most important thing.
If you meet up with your ex and make her feel the same old types of emotions that turned her off you in the first place, she isn’t going to very interested in giving the relationship another shot. However, when you make her feel respect and attraction for you in ways that she’s never experienced before, that is when things begin to change in her mind.
Getting back together actually begins to become HER idea. She starts to feels as though her life just doesn’t feel right with you and your love in it. She feels confused that all of a sudden, she’s feeling so attracted to you and she begins to rationalize that as being a sign that she should give you another chance.
Once the relationship is back together, you then simply use my techniques (provided in Get Your Ex Back: Super System) to deepen the love, respect and attraction that she feels for you.