Getting an ex-girlfriend back is definitely possible.
Think about it this way…
Have you ever hated someone and then really liked them later on when they changed the way that they communicated or behaved around you?
Of course, it happens to everyone.
Additionally, has there ever been a time when you didn’t want to be with a particular woman, but you then changed your mind and really wanted to be with her?
Of course, it’s natural and it happens to most guys.
You definitely can get an ex girlfriend back because it is possible to change the way she feels about you.
Not only is it possible to change how your ex girlfriend feels about you, but it’s a very common thing that guys from all other world do to get their ex back.
When you begin saying and doing things that make her feel respect and attraction for you, she will naturally begin to feel differently about you.
When an ex-girlfriend feels enough renewed respect and attraction for the guy she once dumped, she will almost always open herself back up to being with him.
It’s just simple psychology and when you know how to do it, you will kick yourself for not learning this stuff earlier.
A Break Up is Not Permanent if You Can Make Her Feel Differently About You
Right now, your ex might not have much or any feelings for you to want to get back into a relationship.
However, that doesn’t mean that you can’t change how she feels. In most cases, all it usually takes is a spark of attraction and woman immediately becomes more open to communicating with her ex and even meeting up with him in person.
Once you have reactivated your ex-girlfriend’s feelings for you again, all you need to do is have the confidence and know how to guide back into a relationship with you.
It might seem like a difficult thing to do right now, but that’s because you’ve probably been turning her off and haven’t yet reactivated her feelings for you, so she’s most-likely being closed off to you and not giving you any signs that she wants to get back together.
You can change that though.
You have a lot of direct control over how much or little attraction your ex feels for you.
As long as you are interacting with her and sparking her feelings of respect and attraction for you, her guard will come down and you can then guide her back into a relationship and get her back for good.
Why Did You and Your Girlfriend Decide to Break Up?
Most breakups don’t happen out of the blue.
There are usually plenty of warning signs that a guy will either ignore or be too inexperienced with relationship to notice.
Many of the guys I’ve helped to get an ex back have said that they were shocked when she wanted to break up, because she’d often talked about marriage, starting a family and how much she loved him.
Yet, just because a woman says that she wants to be with you for life one day, it doesn’t mean she will continue holding onto that thought if you no longer make her feel the same way.
Love is something that needs to be taken care of.
If you want to be keep a relationship together for life, you have to deepen the woman’s feelings of love, respect and attraction for you, rather than taking her for granted and expecting that she will stick around.
In the past, a woman would stay with a man for life even if she was unhappy because it was shameful to get divorced.
In today’s world, women break up with guys all the time and don’t even worry about it. In fact, society and even a woman’s family and friends will encourage her to break up with a guy who isn’t right for her.
It’s just not like it used to be.
These days, you actually have to know how to attract a woman and then maintain her attraction for you. Otherwise, she can and often will leave if she gets bored of not feeling the way she really wants to feel.
This is why guys usually fail to get their woman back after a break up, because they have no idea how to make her feel attracted in the ways that really matter to her.
- A woman breaks up with a guy because he was too nice and he then tries to get her back by being even nicer and more romantic. What she really wants is for him to be more ballsy and confident around her, but he just doesn’t understand that, so she moves on.
- A woman breaks up with a guy because he has become insecure, so he then tries to show her that he is fine without her by ignoring her for 30-60 days. Then, when he finally interacts with her again, she tests his confidence and notices that he’s still insecure, so she continues moving on without him.
If you want to get your ex-girlfriend back, you’ve got to understand and accept the type of attraction experience she wants and needs.
You’ve got to give her the type of attraction she wants, otherwise you just can’t expect her to want to be with you anymore.
She’s not going to care if things used to be good between you and her because that was the past and this is now.
You’ve got to make now feel good for her and then she will open back up to you.
Some Do’s and Don’ts Now That You’ve Broken Up
There are many classic mistakes that guys make when a woman breaks up with them and they’re trying to get her back, but here are some common ones to avoid:
1. Don’t plead, beg, whine or otherwise put yourself into a position where you are saying that you will do anything to please her.
Women are mostly attracted to men who are mentally and emotionally strong, so showing emotional weakness like that turns a woman off.
If you have already begged and pleaded, don’t worry – you can recover from that.
Follow the advice in the video above and she will forgive your mistake and see that it was the old version of you who did that, not the man that you’ve now become.
2. Don’t hound her with calls, letters and text messages.
The more pressure you put on her, the more she will want to distance herself from you.
You and her were individuals before you met each other, you were individuals while you were in a relationship (despite how close you both felt) and you are both individuals right now.
She is an individual and can do whatever she wants with her individual life, just like you can. If you make her feel as though she doesn’t have the freedom of choice as an individual human being, it will make her want to get further away from you.
There’s nothing wrong with being persistent or assertive while getting her back, but just make sure that you don’t give her the impression that she doesn’t have a choice in the matter.
3. Don’t call her friends or family and ask for their help.
Her friends and family will usually take her side and if they don’t, she will quickly convince them to. She will then feel resentment towards you for getting her family or friends involved in the break up.
4. Do demonstrate that you are happy with or without her.
Talk confidently, do fun things, catch up with friends, go out to party and enjoy yourself and let her see that happening in your life via your social media account(s). If
Even if she has unfriended you or blocked you, she will still stop by your social media accounts from time to time (and unblock you temporarily) to see what you’ve been up to.
If she can see that you are happy without her, she will be much more open to communicating with you and meeting up with you because she won’t be worried about you desperately trying to get her back.
One of the most common mistakes that guys make is posting up lonely photos of themselves on social media…
Some guys don’t even post anything on social media and when their ex girlfriend stops by to have a look, she sees the same old profile photo and status updates and assumes that he’s just sitting around missing her.
Even though that might not be true, she’s still going to think that way.
So, if you have a social media account (e.g. Facebook, Instagram) make sure that you don’t appear lonely. Let her see that things are happening in your life and you seem happy without her.
5. Do display the charm and confidence that originally attracted her to you.
Be positive, fun and happy to talk to, rather that serious or depressing.
Women are naturally attracted to the emotional strength in men and turned off by the emotional weakness. So, whenever you interact with her, make sure that you display emotional strength by being confident, having high self esteem and being positive about your life and where it’s going.
Don’t try too hard to seem super happy and confident without her. Just relax and let her see that you’re strong and have been doing fine since the break up.
6. Do begin to fix any insecurities that you have regarding your ex (e.g. jealousy, feeling like you’re not good enough for her, clinginess, etc) before you meet up with her in person to attempt a reconciliation.
You don’t have to become perfect before you meet her, just better.
When your ex girlfriend sees that you’ve become a more emotionally strong man, she won’t be able to stop herself from feeling a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you.
Often, that’s all it takes for some guys to get their ex girlfriend back, but if your ex is playing hard to get, you just need to make her feel attracted in other ways (e.g. flirt with her, make her feel girly and feminine in comparison to how masculine you think, talk, feel, behave and take action).
Will You Get Her Back?
After helping hundreds of guys to successful get their ex back, I can say with confidence that you have a VERY HIGH chance of getting your ex girlfriend back.
The very least that I can promise you is that she will agree to meet up with you in person.
At the meet up, you can then use my advanced attraction techniques and persuasive conversation techniques to get her to want to give the relationship another chance. The techniques that I provide make her feel differently about you, which is the most important thing.
If you meet up with your ex and make her feel the same old types of emotions that turned her off you in the first place, she isn’t going to very interested in giving the relationship another shot.
However, when you make her feel respect and attraction for you in ways that she’s never experienced before, that is when things begin to change in her mind.
Getting back together actually begins to become HER idea.
She starts to feels as though her life just doesn’t feel right with you and your love in it. She feels confused that all of a sudden, she’s feeling so attracted to you and she begins to rationalize that as being a sign that she should give you another chance.
Once the relationship is back together, you then deepen the love, respect and attraction that she feels for you and she won’t want to break up again.