Shyness: It's Ruining Your Dating Life! Learn How to Be Confident Today

Shyness makes it difficult for those who suffer from it, to put themselves out there and enjoy life. Since a shy guy will avoid talking to a girl he likes and will often stumbles on his words when she talks to him, he’s rarely going to make enough of a connection with a woman to get a girlfriend.

For some guys, shyness make them nervous, anxious and worried about how women see them. For some guys, shyness keeps popping up at the worst possible times – right when they are about to ask a woman for her phone number, or ask her out for a date.

If you think you’re not shy, then try this test. The next time you’re in public walk over to a woman you don’t know and start a conversation. She needs to be someone you find attractive, or else this experiment won’t work. In fact, she should be the sexiest woman around to really test out this theory. Make eye contact and smile, give her your name, make small talk and ask for her number.

Were you able to do it? Even if you were, did you actually get her number? Chances are that you failed miserably, but don’t worry - the next time you ask out a pretty woman it’s going to be a success! Let’s examine why your approach probably didn’t work.

• Your Smile: Your actions are just as important as the words you say. Your smile should have been natural and relaxed, not stretched out to far. If you didn’t show any teeth, your smile was not a success.
• Your Eyes: Your smile should be on your lips and in your eyes. A warm smile but nervous shifting eyes can make a woman uncomfortable. Don’t just make eye contact, keep it. The longer you look into a woman’s eyes, instead of her other assets the more comfortable she’ll be in your presence.
• Your Body Language: You might unconsciously express shyness by hunching your shoulders. Bad idea! This is a massive turn off for women. Stand up straight and walk with a natural assured grace.
• Your Tone of Voice: A smooth confident speaking voice on a man is a turn on for most women. However, a jerky, breathless squeak won’t do anything but turn her sex drive off! Take a deep breath to shake off your nerves and just speak naturally.
• Your Inability to Make Small Talk: No one ever remembers what they said when making small talk. What is memorable however is if a man was able to carry the conversation and keep her interested enough to want to continue talking. Bottom line it’s not what you say that’s important, it’s the fact that you say something!

Maybe you got lucky and your experiment actually worked out and you got the girl's phone number. Will you get to sex, love and a relationship from here? Maybe you’re good at the first date, but you never seem to make it past a few dates.

Shyness can also ruin your sex life, and if you don’t know how to bring up the topic of sex and get a woman ready to take the next step with you, you’re no better off than the guy who can’t even get a phone number.

Reality check: You can’t spend the rest of your life being too shy to make a move! If you don't fix it now, your life will pass you by and you'll miss out on everything you want with women.

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	Article by Dan Bacon. Founder and lead dating coach for TheModernMan.com
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