There’s nothing worse than being single and alone at midnight on New Year’s Eve and having to stand aside while all the happy couples kiss and embrace each other.
It’s such a sad, empty feeling.
You want to be part of all the love and happiness going on when the clock strikes midnight, but you feel like a bit of an outsider because you don’t have a woman…and that just sucks.
Well, I can tell you that it won’t suck this New Year’s Eve…that’s for sure!
In this post, I’m going to give you some of my favorite techniques for getting a kiss at midnight on NYE.
Getting a Kiss Before Midnight
First and foremost, you must realize and accept that on New Year’s Eve, most single women are open to random a kiss for the sake of tradition and to have a little bit of innocent fun.
People wanting to kiss a random stranger on New Year’s Eve has become quite a tradition, so don’t think that it’s just you who wants to lock lips when the clock strikes 12.
You’re not desperate, you’re not strange and you’re not weird for wanting a kiss on NYE.
Almost everyone who is single on NYE is hoping to get a midnight kiss and maybe even meet someone special to begin a relationship with at the start of the new year.
There’s nothing wrong with starting a new relationship on NYE either.
It’s just love found in a fun way on a very special night of the year.
So, when you go out this NYE, just know that both men and women are secretly hoping to be able to find someone special.
You can be the man that many women are looking for, so don’t shy away from the action.
In the lead-up to the big countdown just before midnight, there are plenty of opportunities to meet women, get to know each other and even get an early kiss.
As the drinks flow and people start to loosen up, you’ll often see a lot of new ‘couples’ passionately kissing each other and embracing.
So, how can you get in on the action?
The Hug Technique
The best way to get yourself a kiss before NYE and is to use what I call The Hug Technique.
Essentially, The Hug Technique is used by walking up to a woman (or group of women) in a playful, genuinely happy mood and then initiating a hug for a certain reason.
The hug immediately gets you and a woman being physical with each other, but more importantly, it feels great for both of you and will sometimes lead to a kiss right then and there, or at least get the interaction started on the right foot so that getting physical won’t feel so awkward later on.
Example scenario: You see a group of women walking around and having fun on New Year’s Eve.
Walk up and say, “Heyy! Happy New Years guys!” with a smile.
If the women respond well and turn their attention to you (indicating that they are open to continuing to interact with you), smile, move in a little closer and say, “Come here – Give me a New Year’s hug!”
Make sure to walk towards them in a positive, confident and easy-going manner.
If you can do that, almost all women will go through with the hug because it’s New Years and people want to be a part of some action.
Then, if the mood is right between you and a particular woman, you can transition to a kiss.
So, whatever you do, at least get a hug on NYE and show women that you are a fun, confident guy who isn’t afraid to have a good time.
How do you know if she wants to kiss you when you hug her?
Simply continue holding her in the hug for an extra couple of seconds, but pull back from the hug a little and gaze into her eyes with a smile.
If she keeps looking at you and smiling and doesn’t pull away from the hug, then go ahead and move in for a kiss.
Her friends will most likely be excitedly cheering her on and enjoying the moment.
On the other hand, if she pulls away from the hug and just wants to talk or continue having fun together, then do that.
Just hang out, flirt and have a fun time together and let the sexual tension build up until the moment is right.
As the night progresses, make sure that you genuinely connect with her, build on her attraction for you and focus on having a fun time.
After you have established mutual attraction, look out for signals that show she is interested in kissing you and just move in for it, or wait until midnight for the big moment.
Signals can include her holding eye contact with you and smiling, hugging you again, looking at your lips while biting her own lip and regularly touching you in a playful and warm/loving way.
By the way…
You can also use The Hug Technique on many other occasions while meeting women, such as when a woman says it’s her birthday. You can say, “Cool! Happy birthday!” and then open your arms to hug her and move in while saying, “Happy birthday hug!” with a smile.
I’ve never had a woman reject that.
Don’t be afraid to hug a woman to congratulate a woman on her birthday.
Share the love.
Be happy, confident and outgoing and just enjoy yourself.
There’s nothing to be shy about when it comes to being a cool, confident, loving guy.
When you’re out meeting new women throughout the year, it is important to be in a fun, social and outgoing mood so that women feel great when they meet you.
However, on New Year’s Eve it’s even MORE important to bring that type of energy into an interaction because everyone wants to be having fun on that night of the year and you don’t want to be seen as a downer.
When you are in a fun, social and outgoing mood, the Hug Technique will serve you extremely well and will either lead to an instant New Year’s Eve kiss or you will have one lined up and waiting for midnight.
Getting a Kiss at Midnight
If the clock strikes 12 and you still don’t have a woman to kiss, look out for:
1. Women who aren’t being kissed
Many single women will go out on NYE with friends who are already in a relationship.
Women like that will often end up standing to the side while all the couples kiss at midnight.
It can be a sad, lonely and left-out feeling for the woman, who may be wishing she could just meet a guy right then and there.
Simply walk by and say in a positive, happy way with a smile, “Happy New Year. You look like you could do with a New Year’s Hug!” or “Happy New Year! We don’t have to have a New Year’s kiss, but let’s at least have a New Year’s hug.”
Say it in a confident, happy, positive, easy-going way.
Be the cool, confident, positive guy who has stopped by to cheer up her night.
If you want to charm her, you can add in (with a smile and in an easy-going way), “You’re easily the most beautiful woman in here. I thought there’d be a line of men waiting to kiss you at midnight. Have you been rejecting guys all night?”
This will make her feel confident about her attractiveness and will give her an excuse as to why she is alone on NYE.
2. Women who are smiling mischievously and looking around at guys, but are not ‘with’ any of them.
Approach her with a smile.
Look her in the eyes and if she holds eye contact with you and keeps smiling, just go ahead and kiss her, or begin with the Hug Technique by smiling and saying, “Give me a New Year’s hug!” and then kiss her afterward.
Don’t Wait Until Midnight With Every Woman
Getting a midnight kiss is the aim of the night, but if you meet a woman at 10:00 pm and she seems interested, then DON’T wait until midnight to kiss her.
Most women are more open to moving things forward much quicker on NYE.
If you don’t move things forward quickly enough, she might think, “Hmm…maybe this guy will be too scared to kiss me when midnight comes around…I should find another guy…fast!”
On New Year’s Eve, almost everyone wants to be having as much fun as possible NOW, before the night is over.
So, don’t waste too much time getting to know a woman; get stuck into the New Year’s Eve kiss bright and early if she seems flirty and open to it.
Have Transportation Sorted Out
If you are aiming to meet women on New Year’s Eve, it’s important to work out how you are going to get home with the woman you’ve just picked up.
Where I live, it is virtually impossible to get a taxi or an Uber in the city after midnight on NYE.
I remember a time when I had to get a woman (my first-ever catwalk model) to walk 20 minutes to my car to come home with me on NYE.
She almost turned back and lost interest about 5 minutes into the walk, but I reassured her that we were almost there and we kept on walking…for another 15 minutes!
When I finally got her home (a 45-minute drive from where we met! I used to live outside the city, but I now live right in the city), the effort was definitely worth it.
She was a very sexy woman and we ended up staying awake until 6 am just getting it on.
It was an awesome NYE.
The fact that she and I almost parted ways on the long walk to my car (even though we had been kissing at the bar) taught me a lesson to be better prepared next time, rather than parking so far away.
So, if you are driving, try to get to where you’re going a bit earlier than usual so you can park closer to the action.
Go Out With Fun People
Go out with fun people on New Year’s Eve and get involved in the party action.
Be the easy-going, happy and upbeat person that people can have a good time with.
If you are hanging out with people who are quiet or aren’t open to being fun and social with others, it’ll be more difficult for you to get results on New Year’s Eve.
On NYE, almost everyone wants to be having the best fun possible and to be hanging out with the coolest people they know or can meet on the night.
If you’re a single guy who is looking to meet women, I recommend that you either go out with:
- A confident male friend (or friends) who can be fun, social and outgoing.
- A cool couple that you know, who are fun to hang out with and who will also be social with other people.
- Female friends who are fun, happy people.
Just remember: It’s your responsibility as a man to initiate things with women.
Don’t sit back hoping that women will hit on you because of your nice shirt, cologne or hairstyle.
Be confident, walk over to say hello and at least use the Hug Technique to wish some women a Happy New Year.
You will be kissing a woman before you know it and it can then lead to sex that night.
Have a great NYE!
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it happen to me last year,i saw some hot chick’s havin fun on nye. i didnt hav the confidence to go and met them.but this yr it wil be crazy for me bcs i hav gotten some technique.
Go get ’em Emmanuel.
BTW: At midnight, instead of saying to a woman, “Give me a NYE kiss” or asking “Do you want an NYE kiss?” – simply go for the NYE hug. Most times it will then naturally transition into a kiss.
Woaw this is quality material, it looks so easy. I’ll be sure to show my bros this article.
You’re welcome T.
Have a great night!
Hey Dan thanks for this
Unfortunately I won’t be so lucky this New Year’s Eve as I’m flat broke to even go anywhere on that night 🙁
You’re welcome mate.
Amrish, it is free to go to many things on NYE. Walk around the streets of your city/main area of town with a friend and go to am open, public event. Use the Hug Technique and get some action.
Thanks for the suggestion
Unfortunately non of my friends are free & are gone away for a holiday, so I’m afraid I won’t get any action this time around.
But I will afterwards when I do get my pay.
After purchasing some of the products available, i can say this. I now feel more confident when talking to women, and can tell when it’s the woman who the problems and not me when things don’t pan out as i expect. You and the rest of the team at the modern man have really made a difference in my life, Thank you. I will eventually purchase some of the other products you’s offer. Once again, thank you for turning life around.
Thanks for you positive feedback.
It’s great to hear of your success so far and I’m glad we’ve been able to make a difference in your life. Keep applying the techniques and it will get even better from where you are now. Enjoy the great times ahead!
I was just wondering how one should deal with a person that tries to take advantage of your presence just to try and impress people or achieve some goal that they have. This happened to me on the new years eve but I actually have two other better examples.
The first one is in a swimming facility where I have a part-time job. When I’m at work and I have go to the pool, I sometimes have to walk past our bar/cafe where people usually sit down and chill after a swim.
This one time I was near our bar and heading towards the pool when suddenly one of my male colleagues behind the bar (and a good friend of mine) yelled at me “Hey pool boy! Come over here for a second.” He did this in a kind of semi-derogatory tone and it was pretty loud so that all the customers that were sitting at the bar could hear it also.
I immediately thought to myself “Wait, why is he doing this? This is not how we usually talk to each other as friends or colleagues..” And then I saw that one of our other colleagues (recently hired, a tall and blond girl) was also working behind the bar at that moment. Only then it hit me that my friend was trying to impress this new blond girl. He was obviously not behaving like he always does and probably wanted to crack some lame joke with me when he tried to call me over. This all happened within two or three seconds and I decided then to turn nonchalantly and walk to the pool, not paying attention to what happened just now.
The second example was at a bus station where I was walking towards my bus. Suddenly this girl that I know runs past me and yells “Hurry up, he’s about to leave”. I smirked and kept on walking my own pace knowing fully that he wasn’t going to leave because there was still a queue. Five seconds later I reached the bus and we had to queue up. Now this girl that I knew started to talk about me as if she was talking to me but wasn’t actually facing me. “Jesus, can’t you even run for your bus you slacker. Always moving slowly like a lazy bum, aren’t you….”
I knew that she never actually talked to me like this before but I wasn’t really bothered by it now. Only when this other guy next to her (one of her classmates) at the queue asked her “Who are you talking to?”, she pointed at me and said “That lazy bum over here”. Her behaviour cleared up when I remembered that she actually likes this classmate of hers. She obviously was expecting me to reply to this in some manner but I didn’t. I didn’t reply back and just took a seat in the bus leaving those two alone.
Neither of the two people that I know in these situations had anything better to say or do to try and impress the people they were trying to impress. Only when I was there they thought they could use my presence for their own goals.
I really don’t mind helping them to make some kind of a good expression on the ones they like, but not when I have to be belittled like that.
As you’ve read, in these situations I just back away when they expect me to reply in some manner.
I think there is a fine line of making fun of your friends in a genuine way and making fun of them by not knowing that you’re actually being offensive.
Do you think I’m exaggerating? Should I have behaved in some other manner than I usually do in these kinds of situations?
The reason you get situations like those occurring could probably be because you are a pushover. I can relate to you. If people lack respect for you, and will try to take advantage of you, they will, also because they know you won’t do anything about it. What I would do it give them a taste of their own medicine by firing back in some way. Throw them off guard and make HIM/HER look like the stupid one. Do it playfully, of course, because you don’t want to look like the bad guy here. The long term fix though would be to stop being a pushover!
Thanks for your question and thanks for your input Michael.
This is what I wrote about in: http://www.themodernman.com/dating/the-consequences-of-not-being-an-alpha-male.html If you’re not an alpha male, you WILL suffer the consequences described in the article. It’s just nature sorting out who gets paired up with who. Either become an alpha male or suffer the consequences.
As for what you could have said to the “pool boy” comment: You don’t need to say anything. If you were an alpha male and had walked over with the type of presence, confidence and power that I teach in Alpha Male Power http://www.themodernman.com/videos/alpha-male-power.html the guys wouldn’t have messed with you and the girl would have felt attracted to you. I explain how to handle such situations in Alpha Male Power. I recommend you watch it.
Tanx a lot dan, the hug technique has worked a lot for me. Thanks, hope to get more techniques
You’re welcome Daniel.
Yes, that technique is a beauty. It really helped me out in the early days when I was still a bit afraid to make physical contact and move in for a kiss. Nowadays, I just use my presence and eye contact to make the girl melt and then grab her and kiss her. If you want to have that sort of mastery level power over yourself and women, watch Alpha Male Power.
Have a great NYE!
Hey Dan ,my girl and I are not hitting it off lately
And she is becoming irratated ,I think I’ve become
A wuss.all the things I use do to now I don’t . We’re do I go from
Thanks for your question.
Sounds like you have a bit of learning to do. Read these articles:
Why Am I Always Arguing With My Girlfriend?
Is She Still in Love With You?
The Seven Year Itch: Fact of Fallacy?
6 Relationship Myths That Will Destroy Your Relationship
Will My Relationship Last?
Should Men Do Housework?
Same place two nights in a row. If I become a regular at the same place will this help me build rapport if I start seeing the same people over time?
If nothing else it’s investing in socialisation
Thanks for your question.
As explained in Alpha Male Power, most people do not care about you and will not care about you until you make yourself matter. Refer to the instructions provided in Alpha Male Power.
Ok, I only have 500 characters here, so I made a video where I go trhguoh my online dating profile and explain what I’m doing (pics and all). I checked out your channel and you seem like a cool enough guy (certainly no worse looking than me), so I’m guessing that a few tweaks to what you’re doing and we’ll be sorted. Just gotta figure out what those tweaks are!
Thanks for your comment.
I didn’t get a link to a video with this comment. If you need my advice, I recommend you read some articles that are relevant to you and then purchase the programs that will fix your problems.
If you need my time to offer individual coaching, I offer phone/video coaching here: http://www.themodernman.com/phone_coaching.html
The Hug Technique… Sounds abit too easy doesn’t it? Does the technique pretty much work without having to go through the Flow so long as you are confident? Look forward to trying it out though.
Thanks for your comment.
Yes, you will find that almost all the techniques we teach are “too easy” to use. That’s how we’ve designed everything. We’ve spent years working this stuff out ourselves, then more years teaching it to clients on weekends. During that time, we’ve discovered the EASY ways to get the results you want with women.
About your question: Yes, you can basically skip everything and get to a kiss. However, after the kiss, you need to be able to keep the woman attracted, connect with her and then move forward to a phone number or sex that night. We explain and demonstrate how to do all that in Dating Power.
Hey Dan! Man this technique is gold. When a I read this article, I was skeptical at first, but since my new year’s resolution was to be more adventurous and take more risk, I decided to give it a try. Long story short, I kissed five different woman last night! Thanks for introducing me to this technique. Will use it quite often. Expect me to buy better than a bad boy or alpha male power very soon. Happy New Year!
Awesome! Thanks for sharing your success.
You kissed 5 women? Lol…that reminds me of when I first discovered the technique. A friend and I went out on a mission to hug as many women as possible in a night using that technique. It led to so many kisses and I eventually stopped with one girl and ended up having sex with her that night.
Enjoy the great times ahead! I hope to hear a success story from you on the Better Than a Bad Boy or Alpha Male Power page soon.
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