Dating and Relationship Expert
Hey – it’s Dan here and this is my story…
Basically, I got to a point in my life where I was tired of missing out on enjoying sex, love and relationships with women. I’d see other guys with a beautiful girlfriend on their arm and wonder, “Why can’t I get that? What is wrong with me? Why don’t women like me?” I knew that I was a good guy and deserved better with women, but women just didn’t seem to value the traits that I had to offer them.
I usually spent my weekends alone or catching up with my one and only friend to talk and hang out. I wanted to meet women, but the idea of approaching and talking to women I didn’t know was something that made me feel nervous and unsure of myself because I didn’t know what to say and feared being rejected and then losing even more confidence. I felt stuck.
No matter how much I tried to fill up my life with other things (e.g. watching TV, going to the gym, talking to my friend, etc), there was always something HUGE missing: Women. I had no options with women and the women I did know if my life were either unattractive or already taken. Eventually, I realized that I was going to have to face up to my fears and do something about it, or I would end up suffering even worse consequences such as: Becoming even more nervous around women, spending more time alone, not being truly loved by a woman in a relationship and never becoming the man that I really wanted to be around women.
After years of loneliness and feeling left out, I eventually decided to face my fears and go out to bars and clubs every weekend to approach women until I worked out the secrets to success with women. Luckily, I met a new friend at the time who was willing to come along with me each weekend and approach women so he could learn and improve as well.
I began keeping “notes” on all the things I was learning – mostly ways to start conversations and not feel nervous during an interaction. Apart from starting the conversation properly, I struggled to get any other results because I was being too nice during conversations and would usually run out of things to say. Eventually, after about 200 approaches I began to discover techniques that AUTOMATICALLY caused women to feel attraction for me and want to keep talking to me. I also started experimenting with using different types of humor and sexual flirting and THAT is when I started to make some REAL progress.
Now that women were interested in me, all I needed to learn was how to get a phone number, how to move in for a kiss and then sex that night and how to get women (who didn’t want to have sex on the first night) to meet me for a date. Months later (after a lot of trial and error and approaching every weekend), I began to work out the right words to say and the right moves to make, so a woman would give me her phone number and eagerly want to go on a date with me or have sex with me on the first night.
Fast forward 1.5 years and I had achieved the type of success with women that most guys only ever dream of. I was dating and having sex with beautiful women like it was the most natural and easy thing in the world and they were calling ME up and wanting to see me all the time. The best part about it was that I was being myself and women were loving me for it. I didn’t have to put on an act, lie to women or use any tacky or weird “seduction” tricks to get women to like me.
It was at this point that I stopped to take a look through all the notes I’d been keeping. I was amazed to discover that it was packed full of techniques, ideas, perspectives and strategies that most men were unaware of. These techniques were allowing me to stand out from all the other guys and make women fall in love with me very quickly. In the past, all I could manage to do was get most women to like me as a person. This was different. Women were now attracted to me, liking me as a person and falling in love with me during the first conversation. It was such a cool feeling to get to this level of power and skill with women.
Over the next year, I cleaned up the notes and put them into the format you can now read in my ebook called The Flow. To make sure that the techniques in The Flow worked for other guys, I passed the draft version of The Flow on to some friends (including Ben and Stu who are now a part of The Modern Man) and they were amazed. My friends who were struggling with women began using the techniques and immediately started dating and having sex with new women. Some of the guys quickly found girlfriends who – at the time of writing this – are still together in the relationships that they found.
As for Ben and Stu, they were already good with women by that point. Miraculously, the three of us managed to find each other at a point where we were all enjoying amazing success with women. I told Ben and Stu about what I’d discovered and how I wanted to share this information with other guys, by starting The Modern Man. They agreed and so it began.
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