Hey – it’s Dan here and this is my story…
One day, I got to a point in my life where I’d had enough of being alone. I sick and tired of missing out on sex, love and relationships with women.
I’d see other guys with a beautiful girlfriend or wife on their arm and wonder, “Why can’t I get that? What is wrong with me? Why don’t women like me?” I knew that I was a good guy and deserved better, but women just didn’t seem to value the traits that I had to offer.
I usually spent my weekends alone at home or catching up with my one and only friend to talk and hang out. I really wanted to meet women and get myself a girlfriend or at least have some sex, but the idea of approaching and talking to women I didn’t know was something that made me feel nervous.
I had no idea what to say to get women interested and I also feared being rejected. I worried that I approached women and got rejected, I’d lose even more confidence in myself and feel worse.
So, I remained alone.
Months and then years of my life wasted away, while everyone else around me enjoying love, sex and relationships.
I tried to improve how I looked by buying fashionable clothes, expensive shoes and even going to tanning salons, but nothing that I did to myself physically changed anything about my situation with women. Women seemed to notice that I was dressed well, but when I talked to them the conversation would quickly become boring and I would run out of things to say.
I didn’t know how to get women to like me and I began to wonder whether there was something wrong with me. I couldn’t work out what was turning women off.
No matter how much I tried to fill up my life with other things (e.g. watching TV, going to the gym, talking to my friend, etc), there was always something HUGE missing in my life: A woman. I had no options with women and the women that I did know were either unattractive or already in a relationship.
After years of loneliness and feeling left out, I eventually decided to face my fears and go out to bars and clubs every weekend to approach women until I worked out how to get women to feel attracted to me.
Luckily, around that time I met a new friend who was willing to come along with me and approach women every weekend so he could learn and improve as well.
After a few weeks, I was able to start a conversation off well and get some initial interest for a minute or two, but I would then usually run out of things to say and then leave the interaction.
Eventually, after about 200 approaches I began to discover techniques that caused women to feel an instant attraction for me. All of a sudden, women wanted to keep talking to me and were helping to keep the conversation going. I also started experimenting with using different types of humor and flirting and that is when things really started to change.
Now that women were feeling attracted to me and enjoying interacting with me, I then began to work out how to get a phone number, how to move in for a kiss and then how to get sex that night. For the women who were open to having sex on the first night, I worked out how to get them to meet me for a first date and then have sex at the end of it.
I was having so much sex and had multiple women in my life at once.
It was amazing.
Fast forward 1.5 years later and I’d achieved the type of success with women that most guys only ever dream of. I was dating and having sex with beautiful women like it was the most natural and easy thing in the world and they were calling ME up and wanting to see me all the time.
The best part about it all was that I was being myself and women were loving me for it. I didn’t have to put on an act, lie to women or use any tacky or weird “seduction” tricks to get women to like me.
I was making women feel naturally attracted to me by displaying the personality traits and behaviors that naturally attract women. I was also using a completely different approach to conversation than most guys use with women…and it was working!
It was at this point that I stopped to take a look through all the notes that I’d been keeping at home. I had pages and pages of notes detailing what I was saying to get women attracted to me, how I was dealing with challenging situations and how I was getting so many women to want to have sex with me.
The notebook that I had been making notes in was packed full of techniques, ideas, perspectives and strategies that most men were unaware of. These techniques were allowing me to stand out from all the other guys and make women fall in love with me and want to have sex with me almost immediately.
Over the next year, I cleaned up the notes and put them into the format you can now read in my ebook called The Flow. To make sure that the techniques in The Flow worked just as well for other guys, I gave a draft version of The Flow to some friends (including Ben and Stu who are now a part of The Modern Man) and they were amazed.
My friends who were struggling with women (not Ben and Stu – they were enjoying the same type of success with women as I was at that time) used the techniques and immediately began dating and having sex with new women.
Some of the guys quickly found girlfriends and are still in the same relationship with the same woman today as I write this.
As for Ben and Stu, they were already good with women by that point and had been enjoying the type of success with women that most guys think is impossible. I told Ben and Stu about what I’d discovered and how I wanted to share this information with other guys by starting The Modern Man.
They agreed that it needed to be done and The Modern Man mission began.
Since then, we have helped 1,000s of guys to achieve success with women (view some success stories) and we would be honored to help you too.
If you need help with women, don’t be afraid to learn this stuff. This is the best type of personal development that any man can do.
When you improve your skills with women, you will notice that pretty much all other areas of your life and relationships improve as well. We always hear back from guys who talk about how many friends they have now, how they’ve gotten promoted at work and how much their family and friends now respect them.
When you follow our proven to work advice, you will not only get the type of results with women that you’ve spent most of your life dreaming about, but you will experience massive improvements in other areas of your life as well.
I can’t wait to show you the way to success with women. If you are interested in learning, go ahead and get started now. It will be amongst the best decisions you ever make in life.