Dan Bacon - Founder of The Modern Man and author of The Flow

Hey – it’s Dan here and this is my story…

Basically, I got to a point in my life where I was tired of missing out on enjoying sex, love and relationships with women. I’d see other guys with a beautiful girlfriend on their arm and wonder, “Why can’t I get that? What is wrong with me? Why don’t women like me?” I knew that I was a good guy and deserved better with women, but women just didn’t seem to value the traits that I had to offer them.

I usually spent my weekends alone or catching up with my one and only friend to talk and hang out. I wanted to meet women, but the idea of approaching and talking to women I didn’t know was something that made me feel nervous and unsure of myself because I didn’t know what to say and feared being rejected and then losing even more confidence. I felt stuck.

No matter how much I tried to fill up my life with other things (e.g. watching TV, going to the gym, talking to my friend, etc), there was always something HUGE missing: Women. I had no options with women and the women I did know if my life were either unattractive or already taken.

One day, I realized that I needed to face up to my fears and do something about it, or I would end up suffering even worse consequences such as: Becoming even more nervous around women, spending more time alone, not being truly loved by a woman in a relationship and never becoming the man that I really wanted to be around women.

After years of loneliness and feeling left out, I eventually decided to face my fears and go out to bars and clubs every weekend to approach women until I worked out the secrets to success with women. Luckily, I met a new friend at the time who was willing to come along with me each weekend and approach women so he could learn and improve as well.

I began keeping “notes” on all the things I was learning – mostly ways to start conversations and not feel nervous during an interaction. Apart from starting the conversation properly, I struggled to get any other results because I was being too nice during conversations and would usually run out of things to say.

Eventually, after about 200 approaches I began to discover techniques that AUTOMATICALLY caused women to feel attraction for me and want to keep talking to me. I also started experimenting with using different types of humor and sexual flirting and THAT is when I started to make some REAL progress.

Now that women were interested in me, all I needed to learn was how to get a phone number, how to move in for a kiss and then sex that night and how to get women (who didn’t want to have sex on the first night) to meet me for a date.

Months later (after a lot of trial and error and approaching every weekend), I began to work out the right words to say and the right moves to make, so a woman would give me her phone number and eagerly want to go on a date with me or have sex with me on the first night.

Fast forward 1.5 years and I had achieved the type of success with women that most guys only ever dream of. I was dating and having sex with beautiful women like it was the most natural and easy thing in the world and they were calling ME up and wanting to see me all the time.

The best part about it was that I was being myself and women were loving me for it. I didn’t have to put on an act, lie to women or use any tacky or weird “seduction” tricks to get women to like me.

It was at this point that I stopped to take a look through all the notes I’d been keeping. I was amazed to discover that it was packed full of techniques, ideas, perspectives and strategies that most men were unaware of. These techniques were allowing me to stand out from all the other guys and make women fall in love with me very quickly. In the past, all I could manage to do was get most women to like me as a person.

This was different.

Women were now attracted to me, liking me as a person and falling in love with me during the first conversation. It was such a cool feeling to get to this level of power and skill with women.

Over the next year, I cleaned up the notes and put them into the format you can now read in my ebook called The Flow. To make sure that the techniques in The Flow worked for other guys, I passed the draft version of The Flow on to some friends (including Ben and Stu who are now a part of The Modern Man) and they were amazed.

My friends who were struggling with women (not Ben and Stu) used the techniques and immediately began dating and having sex with new women. Some of the guys quickly found girlfriends who – at the time of writing this – are still together in the same relationship with the same woman.

As for Ben and Stu, they were already good with women by that point and had been enjoying the type of success with women that most guys think is impposible. Miraculously, the three of us managed to find each other at a point where we were all enjoying amazing success with women.

I told Ben and Stu about what I’d discovered and how I wanted to share this information with other guys, by starting The Modern Man. They agreed and so it began!

Since then, I have helped 1,000s of guys to achieve success with women (view some success stories) I would be honored to help you too.

If you could be kind enough to post up your success story, I look forward to personally replying to you and congratulating you. If I don’t hear back from you after you’ve begun using my techniques to get the results you want with women, I just want to take this opportunity to say enjoy the great times ahead!

Dan Bacon

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"I've had sex with 4 women in the last 2 months. Your techniques are gold and have worked every time I've used them. I'll be getting more of your programs soon to boost my game further." Jason

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I finished reading "The Flow" 2 days after I had purchased it. On the third day, I went out into the town to put what I learned in action. It works so well! I talked to two girls, and they both wanted me! What I attempted was wayyy out of my comfort zone, and not what I usually would do, but I put that passed me and just gave it a go. Worked like a charm. The first girl I talked to was definitely interested, so much so that I felt taking her home was absolutely possible, but after talking for a little I decided i didn't want her. YES, I chose. Then moved onto the next girl, who was also much more beautiful. Put the techniques I read about in the book to use, and now she is my girlfriend. It was literally so easy after you know the right things to do. Before this book I would have NEVER talked to her. Before this book I wouldn't have even tried because I mean seriously, she seemed way out of my league. Buy this book. It is absolutely worth it.


"Getting your book The Flow has been the best investment I've ever made in myself as a man. It has not only taught me how to be confident, but has given me the type of skills with women that make my friends super jealous. I am currently seeing four different girls at once. Don't hate the playa! Hahaaa..." Tyrone


"After my wife and I separated I didn’t know where to turn for help. I tried a bunch of things that I’d found online, but it was just pushing her further away from me. Another guy was in the picture so I knew that I needed to act fast. A friend suggested The Modern Man, I got the Ex Back program and her and I are back together in a better relationship than we had before. I've become a better man than I was before which has not only helped my marriage, but my standing at work where I have recently been promoted. I can't thank Dan and his team enough." Dave


"I was surprised at how quickly I got results because I was always the typical nice guy who girls saw only as the friend. This has been the most exciting year of my life. There's no better feeling than to have control over this area of one's life." Ajay


"I was skeptical before getting started because there is a lot of crap online that promises to help guys out with chicks, but I am glad I did because I now have a pretty girlfriend to call my own. Dan's products are simply awesome - I recommend that you try it for yourself and see." Gio


"I wasted years trying to get the answers for free online until I finally decided to bite the bullet and pay to learn from the experts. I got your Dating Power program and have been having endless sex with women I’ve been meeting in at uni, at bars and through friends. I would have paid DOUBLE if I knew that it was going to be this good. 5 stars from me!" Josh


"Any guy who isn't learning from The Modern Man is missing out big time. I've been getting laid like crazy lately....it's funny how easy it is once you get it." Ricky


"My parents were quite worried that I still didn't have a girlfriend at age 29 and it was really getting me down. So I searched online, found The Modern Man and gave it a try. I experienced more success with girls in three months that I've had in my entire life. I now have a great girlfriend and my parents have finally stopped pestering me, except now they want grandchildren...!" Wei


"Initially I was a little put off by your prices, but I decided to give it a go anyway since you guys offered a guarantee. To say that I am happy with my purchase is an understatement. I turned my female friend of 3 years into my girlfriend with a simple conversation and a couple of your attraction techniques. Amazing!" Richard


"Best pick up advice online. TMM are the real deal. Got several women on the go now." Andy


"Approaching women was a nerve-wracking experience for me until I decided to learn from Dan and his team. The Flow helped me overcome my fears, become confident and get results fast. I didn't have a single woman in my life for more than three years, but by using The Flow I now have a fiance and we are planning to marry in the fall of next year." Adrian


"I recently lost my virginity and I owe a huge thanks to you and your Flow book. I also kissed another girl at a party and have two other girls interested. I'm on fire!" Frankie


"My ex girlfriend loves me more than ever now that she can relax into her feminine mode. Even though I don’t want an exclusive relationship anymore, she still wants to date and have sex with me and hopes that I will change my mind. Your ex back system is priceless and has given me an insight into women that was missing in my life until now." Cameron