Name: Dan Bacon
Title: Founder and CEO, TheModernMan.com
Current Location: Los Angeles, California
Personal site: DanBacon.org
Hi - It's Dan Bacon and here is my story...
Basically, I’d gotten to a point in my life where I was sick and tired of not experiencing the kind of success with women that I wanted to. When I was in public places, I’d see other guys with a beautiful girlfriend on their arm and wonder, “Why can’t I get that? What is wrong with me?”
I usually spent my weekends alone or catching up with my one and only friend to talk and hang out. I wanted to meet women, but the idea of approaching and talking to women I didn’t know was something that made me feel very nervous because I didn’t know what to say and feared being rejected and losing even more confidence in myself.
I realized that I was going to have to do something about soon and face up to my fears, or I’d end up suffering even worse consequences such as: Becoming even more nervous around women, spending more time alone, not be loved by a woman and never becoming the man that I wanted to be around women. I decided to commit to going out to bars and clubs every weekend to approach until I overcame my fears and worked out the secrets to success with women.
Luckily, I met a new friend at the time who was willing to come along with me each weekend and approach women so he could learn and improve as well. I began keeping “notes” on all the things I was learning – mostly ways to start conversations and not feel nervous during the interaction. Apart from starting the conversation properly, I struggled to get any other results because I was being too nice and safe in my conversations and would usually run out of things to say pretty quickly. Eventually, after about 200 approaches I began to discover techniques that AUTOMATICALLY caused women to feel attraction for me and want to keep talking to me. I also started experimenting with using different types of cocky humor and sexual flirting and THAT is when I started to make some REAL progress.
Now that women were immediately becoming interested in me, all I needed to learn then was how to get a phone number, move in for a kiss, get a date or even sex that night. Months later (after a lot of trial and error and constant approaching every weekend), I began to work out the right words to say and the right moves to make, so a woman would give me her phone number and eagerly want to go on a date with me.
Fast forward 1.5 years and I’d achieved the type of success with women & dating that most guys only ever dream of. I was dating and having sex with beautiful women like it was the most natural and easy thing in the world. Best of all, I was being myself and women loved me for it. I didn’t have to put on an act, lie or use any tacky or weird “seduction” tricks to get women to like me. I was now an IMPROVED, more naturally attractive version of myself.
It was at this point that I stopped to take a look at all the notes I’d been keeping. I was amazed to discover that it was packed full of techniques, ideas, perspectives and strategies that most men were unaware of. These techniques were allowing me to stand out from all the other guys and have women quickly fall in love with me. In the past, all I could manage to do was get most women to like me as a person. This was different. Women were now attracted to me, liking me as a person and falling in love with me during the first conversation. It was such a cool feeling to get to this level.
Over the next year, I tidied up the notes I’d been keeping and put them into the format you can now read in my ebook called The Flow. To make sure the techniques in The Flow worked for other guys first, I passed the draft version of The Flow on to some friends (including Ben and Stu who are now a part of The Modern Man) and they were amazed. My friends who were struggling with women started using the techniques and immediately started dating and having sex with new women. Some of the guys quickly found girlfriends who - at the time of writing this – are still together in the relationships that they found.
As for Ben and Stu, they were already good with women by that point. Miraculously, we managed to find each other at a point where we were all enjoying easy success with women. I told Ben and Stu about what I’d discovered and how I wanted to share this information with other guys, by starting The Modern Man. They agreed and so it began.
The Modern Man Story
- Video 1: What should I say to a woman after hello?
- Video 2: How can I overcome my fear of rejection?
- Video 3: How do I get out of the friend zone with a woman I like?
- Video 4: Why do women always go for bad boys?
- Video 5: Why do women play hard to get?
- Video 6: How do I build the confidence to approach women?
- Video 7: Why do women always talk about other guys who like them?
- Video 8: How do I tell a woman that I have feelings for her?
- Video 9: How can I approach women during the day?
- Video 10: Can I recover from a bad first impression I made on a woman?
- Video 11: How can I pick up the super hot women who play hard to get?
- Youtube: Dan Bacon on Youtube
- Dan Bacon on TV: Dan Bacon on TV