Of course not.
Yes, there are women out there who actively seek to find a rich man and will settle for nothing less. However, most women are much more flexible with what type of guy they will have sex with, get into a relationship with and even marry.
Just like most guys would ideally like to date a model, but can also be attracted to all kinds of other women such as lawyers, doctors, yoga instructors, librarians and kindergarten teachers, etc, the same thing applies to women.
Although women are attracted to guys who have money, most women can (and do) feel attracted to other types of guys too. Ultimately, it’s a lot more than money that’s going to seal the deal with woman.
After all, how many guys do you know who only make a small or average amount of money, but still have a hot girlfriend or wife? If you’re being honest with yourself, you will admit that most of the guys you know or have known are just average guys, but still get laid, have a girlfriend or have a wife.
Guys who haven’t had good male role models around them while growing up, often find themselves confused about what women really want in a man.
Not knowing where else to turn, they often seek to find the answers by analysing TV sitcoms, movies, music lyrics and random things that women say about guys.
In sitcoms, movies and music videos, relationships between men and women are usually depicted as dysfunctional and full of mind games. The women are usually ball breakers who treat men like crap and expect men to kiss their ass by being super polite, respectful and nice in the hope that she will eventually give him a chance to be with her.
Women are often depicted as wanting money and power and guys who can’t offer them that are scorned, ridiculed or rejected. On the other hand, men are usually depicted as sniveling weaklings who are constantly being henpecked and pushed around by the women, unless, yes you guessed it, they have money or power.
When a guy has been brainwashed by TV, movies and music videos into thinking that women only want money, he usually then seeks to verify his belief by looking at how women behave in real life. For example: If he approaches a beautiful woman and gets rejected, he may walk away assuming that the women didn’t think he was rich enough.
Yet, that isn’t the real reason why he got rejected. What is? Watch this video by Dan Bacon (founder of The Modern Man) to find out…
Understanding What Women Really Want
If you really want to know what women want, it is important to realize that a lot of it has to do with survival instinct. Women are attracted to men who make them feel safe and protected and money tends to be a fairly good way of ensuring that you will have food, shelter and enough resources to provide for offspring.
Yet, a woman doesn’t expect a man to be rich before she will have sex with him, be his girlfriend or even marry him.
For most women, they just want to know that you have the potential to be successful enough to provide the protection of food and shelter and be able to afford some of the enjoyable luxuries of modern life (e.g. going to the movies, taking a vacation, having a good car, etc)
Consider what would happen to this world if women were only attracted to guys who had lots of money…
The only guys with girlfriends and wives would be rich and every other guy on the planet would be single, alone and jerking off to porn for life.
Obviously, that isn’t how the real world works. Most guys in this world are not rich and are either just getting by or making enough money to live a comfortable life. Yet, they still have a girlfriend or wife.
Using Money as an Excuse For Your Lack of Ability to Attract Women
If you are the kind of guy who has convinced himself that women only want money, you are probably looking for an excuse to justify why you haven’t had any success with the ladies lately.
Brushing it off and blaming women for your lack of success with women, is a good way of avoiding the responsibility of facing up to any shortcomings that you may have.
You can hide away and think negative thoughts about the world all day if you want, (e.g. “Women are bitches…they are stuck up, gold digging whores”) but nothing is going to change for the better unless you really stop and understand the reality that women live in.
If you get hung up on your idea that women only want money, you might waste a lot of your precious life not focussing your attention on the real issues.
For example: If a guy displays any or all of the following unattractive qualities around women, then it won’t really matter if he has money or not – most women just aren’t going to be interested in him.
- Lacks self confidence and becomes nervous and uncomfortable when he talks to the women he likes.
- Approaches women in an apologetic manner, rather than approaching with a confident, relaxed and easy-going attitude.
- Has trouble holding an interesting and engaging conversation with an attractive woman (e.g. he talks about boring things like his job, or asks too many questions in a row and makes the woman feel tense and uncomfortable).
- Has no how to attract women with his body language and masculine vibe.
- Is too nice to women (i.e. he tries to be liked by women for being really nice, polite and considerate, rather than making women feel sexually attracted while also being a good guy).
- Knows absolutely nothing about flirting and seducing a woman. He may even think that it’s “wrong” to flirt or seduce with a woman and that a man should be a polite gentleman who shows no interest in sex.
- Has few or no good friends, making a woman question his trustworthiness as a person. After all, if no one trusts him enough to be his friend, why should she?
- Lacks ambition and purpose in life. A guy who is going nowhere and has no intention of going anywhere is seen as a waste of time for most women. Ultimately, most women are looking for someone to spend the rest of their life with and a guy without ambition is like food without flavor – it quickly loses it’s appeal.
If you can relate to any of the above points, then you need to stop worrying about women wanting money and start focussing your attention on being more attractive to women as a man. Your misguided beliefs about women only wanting money from men are preventing you from tapping into your natural ability to attract women with your personality, confidence and charm.
You can attract women with who you are, rather than what you’ve got in your bank account. Millions of other guys have done it and so can you.
Prove Yourself Wrong
You already know that long before money even existed, men were still able to attract women, breed and keep a relationship together for life. True?
Of course, we now live in a culture that needs money to keep the machine going, but a woman’s attraction to a man is not all about money. There are millions of men out there who work as a janitor, bus driver, teacher, etc and they still get laid, get a girlfriend and get married.
Yes, some women do want a rich man and will stop at nothing to find one. However, the majority of women have what Dan Bacon (founder of The Modern Man) refers to as an Open Type, which means that they are open to being with all different types of men, as long as the man is able to make her feel a sufficient amount of attraction for other reasons.
Watch this video to understand how it works…