Have you ever approached a woman who was out of your league, but somehow managed to get her phone number and then get her to go out with you on a few dates? It all seemed to be going along fairly well, but she lost interest in you all of sudden. Sound familiar? Why does it happen?

Essentially, you will have been behaving in ways that caused her to lose attraction and respect for you. When a woman doesn’t respect you as a man, she can’t feel any lasting attraction for you and when both of those elements are missing, she won’t be able to develop feelings for you. Some of the most common mistakes guys make when they manage to pick up a woman who is currently out of their league or not truly compatible:

Wasting Your Time on Women Who Aren’t Right For You

It is really frustrating to invest your time, money and even heart into a woman only to have her reject it. It’s even worse when you don’t know why she rejected you. Dating women who are out of your league can make you feel anxious, uncomfortable, sick to the stomach and fearful. It can also make you begin to wonder whether you should accept a less attractive woman.


Before you ruin your life by accepting lower quality women than you deserve, give me 10 minutes and let me help you. Wouldn’t it be great if you knew how to approach hot a woman and get her to fall hopelessly in love with you? Wouldn’t it be great if you knew how to have sex with her on the first night?

Well you can. You really can. Until you realize that there is no such thing as a woman who is too good for you or above your means, you will never have the confidence to approach a woman who you perceive to be ‘out of your league’ and talk to her with the confidence and self-belief that she expects in a man she will date.

The model, the sexy sports-girl or the traffic-stopping beauty are no different from any other woman.

Beautiful women are not only looking for a man who is isn’t afraid to approach them, but they are also looking for a guy who can NORMAL around them. Why? Most guys freak out when around beautiful women.

The fact is that beautiful women are less likely to be hit on correctly because men expect the woman to reject them or make it difficult, so they end up giving her way too much power…and she doesn’t like that. Here are a few beginner tips to approach a woman who you see as being out of your league and get her attention:

  • No compliments unless you are a really confident guy: Every other guy has already told her how beautiful she is, so unless you are really confident (which means that you will be naturally attractive to women), then don’t compliment her in the hope that it will make her attracted to you. Instead, ask her questions about herself, but make sure that you talk about yourself as well – she needs to find out what you are like as a person too.
  • Be sexual: A squint of the eyes with a mischievous smile says to a woman, “I like you and you like me too.” This is called flirting and it is essential for creating a sexual vibe between you and a woman.
  • Let her do the chasing: Be the one who is deciding whether or not she is good enough for you, instead of hoping that you are good enough for her. She will find your confident approach to be exciting and mysterious and she will be drawn to you like a magnet.

Dating success will not come overnight, but if you are willing to approach a woman and do something unexpected, you will be amazed how easy it is to date hot women. If you click around here at The Modern Man, you will learn things like:

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My name is Dan Bacon and I will show you how to avoid the rejections, worries and heartaches that come with dating women in today’s world. I’m an expert at approaching women and at teaching guys how to approach women on their own.

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